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- See if you agree with these premises:
- Families exist to fill the physical + psychological + and spiritual
needs of their adults and kids -
i.e. to nurture.
- Adults’ knowledge and wholistic
health determine how well they fill their family members’ needs, so
families range from “low nurturance” to “high nurturance”
- When young kids experience significant abuse, neglect, and/or
abandonment in low-nurturance homes, they develop up to six
psychological “wounds”:
- Excessive shame, guilts, fears, and reality distortions (like denial),
- Difficulty trusting people appropriately, and possibly…
- An inability to feel. love, and bond with other people.
- Unless they get knowledgeable help to reduce their wounds, kids
become “Grown Wounded Children”
(GWCs). They show behavioral symptoms of their wounds.
- Their wounds + unawareness promote significant problems like abuse,
abandonment, self-neglect, divorce, abortion, obesity, addiction, crime,
gangs, bigotry, cults, school dropouts, depression. suicide,
homelessness, murder, corruption, and
illness.
- Unhealed GWCs tend to unconsciously choose other GWCs as mates and
associates, repeatedly, despite
major stress – so GWC mates often divorce.
- GWC couples unconsciously co-create low-nurturance families and wound
their kids.
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