•See if you agree with these premises:
•Families
exist to fill the physical + psychological + and spiritual needs of their
adults and kids - i.e. to nurture.
•Adults’ knowledge and wholistic
health determine how well they fill their family
members’ needs,
so families range from “low nurturance” to “high nurturance”
•When
young kids experience significant abuse, neglect, and/or abandonment in low-nurturance homes, they
develop up to six psychological “wounds”:
•Excessive
shame, guilts, fears, and reality distortions (like denial),
•Difficulty
trusting people appropriately, and possibly…
•An
inability to feel. love, and bond with other people.
•Unless
they get knowledgeable help to reduce their wounds, kids become “Grown Wounded
Children” (GWCs). They
show behavioral symptoms of their wounds.
•Their
wounds + unawareness promote significant problems like abuse, abandonment, self-neglect, divorce,
abortion, obesity, addiction, crime, gangs, bigotry, cults, school dropouts, depression.
suicide, homelessness, murder, corruption, and
illness.
•Unhealed
GWCs tend to unconsciously choose other GWCs as mates and associates, repeatedly, despite major stress – so GWC mates often
divorce.
•GWC
couples unconsciously co-create low-nurturance families and wound their kids.