About Merging and Stabilizing Several Biofamilies

    When two people start dating seriously, they usually intro-duce their family to each other over time. If the couple commits to each other, Their families redefine "who belongs" to include some or all of both families. This process is specially complex in typical stepfamilies, which must merge three or more bio-families (both bioparents' families + one or more stepparent's families).

      "Merging biofamilies" means combining up to 16 groups of tangible and invisible things (like customs, rituals, names, pre-ferences, beliefs, and priorities). This often takes years, and causes many confusions and conflicts

      This complex merger process used to be called "Project 9" in this educational Web site. The same ideas are now part of self-study Lesson 5 - evolve and enjoy a nourishing family.

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