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This nonprofit site is based on the premise that young children deprived of too many nurturances develop a false self to survive. One result is living under the control of reactive, needy Vulnerable and Guardian subselves (a "false self"), rather than their wise true Self. Common effects of significant false-self domi-nance in adulthood are: |
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> Choosing wounded partners repeatedly, despite painful outcomes like (re)divorce; > Unintentionally reproducing low-nurturance family environments, and wounding dependent kids; > Unconsciously choosing harmful and/or unsatisfying (low nurturance) work, social, and religious relationships and settings; > Having to reorganize their personality (i.e. free their true Self) to reduce behaviors like these; > Choosing a human-service occupation, and/or hiring wounded profes-sional helpers to reduce family stresses; and... > Suffering significant stress, relationship and health problems, and dying prematurely, without knowing who they really were or could have become. |
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| Once aware of this
and hitting true
bottom, any
Grown Wounded Child
(GWC) can choose to
recover,
live better and longer, and protect their kids from these effects.
Family
Project 1
provides one effective way do this.
more detail / slides / Project-1 guidebook and index / close |
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