About Inner Conflicts

        Premise - the personality of every adult or child is composed of a group of semi-independent subselves which have differing (conflicting) roles, goals, values, and perceptions of the world. One implication is that "relationship problems" are really conflicts among my subselves, your subselves, and between our subselves.  Common symptoms of in-ternal conflicts are ambivalence, changing or making up my mind, feel-ing torn or unsure, indecision, procrastination, confusion, and seeing both sides.

        This suggests that solving any major relationship problem requires all people involved to value, identify, and resolve all three of these dis-putes well enough. That's most likely to happen if each person's inner family is guided by a respected and trusted true Self. Family Project 1 is about freeing the true Self to lead and manage internal disputes. Lesson 2 invites adults to learn to use seven powerful skills to resolve inner and outer conflicts effectively, and teach their kids how to do the same. 

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