About the Peacemaker Personality Subself
Can you think of an adult or child who constantly tries to reduce or avoid conflict ("smooth things over") between people - even strangers? Would knowledgeable people say you do this?
Compulsive peacemaking may indicate a well-meaning Guardian per-sonality subself whose tireless mission is to (a) protect Inner Kids from anxiety, guilt, and shame and (b) promote other people liking the host person.
Typical Peacemaker subselves seek to avoid or stop disputes. In con-trast, typical resident true Selves (capital "S") respect others' right and re-sponsibility to fill their own needs without interference, and/or seek to inter-est them in learning relationship basics and effective communication and problem-solving principles and skills.
Note the important difference between saying "S/He has an active Peacemaker subself" vs. "S/He (the whole host person) is a Peacemaker."