Courtship Danger Signs Millions of average U.S. couples divorce or endure daily misery be-cause needy, wounded partners didn't know or heed their risks and made up to 6 unwise commitment choices. Common RED LIGHTS: |
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Partners having many false-self (wound) traits Excessive urgency to cohabit and/or wed - dating less than 18-24 months Many recent major life changes A history of unsuccessful or no intimate adult relationships Prior romantic/sexual affairs No experience at living alone Few or no real friends |
A partner ignoring major doubts or ambivalence about commitment A mate having major debts. Partners ignoring Lessons 1 thru 4 or equivalent Past or current addictions, inclu-ding cddependence, food, worka-holism, and Internet usage Mates keeping major secrets Partners often avoiding conflicts and repressing emotions |
The more of these signs courting couples have and ignore, the higher their odds of stress and eventual psychological or legal divorce. video / More detail / slides |