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U.S. parents' baby knowledge
lacking, study finds

By Julie Steenhuysen

Reuters News Service, via
 Yahoo online News - 5/3/08

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        From 36 years' clinical research, I propose that a core cause of most American family and social problems is an inherited, unrecognized [wounds + unawareness] cycle. Part of the unawareness is typical parents' lack of basic child-development and effective-parenting information. This University of Rochester research summary seems to confirm this.

        The links, emphases, and hilights below are mine. Please see my comments following this summary. - Peter Gerlach, MSW

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Nearly a third of U.S. parents know surprisingly little about typical infant development, and this lack of understanding can rob their babies of much-needed mental stimulation, researchers said on Sunday.

"There are numerous parenting books telling people what to expect when they're pregnant," said Dr. Heather Paradis of the University of Rochester Medical Center in New York.

"But once a baby is born, an astonishing number of parents are not only unsure of what to anticipate as their child develops, but are also uncertain of when, how or how much they are to help their babies reach various milestones, such as talking, grabbing, discerning right from wrong, or even potty-training," said Paradis, who presented her findings at a Pediatric Academic Society meeting in Honolulu.

She and colleagues analyzed parenting know-how based on a national sample of parents representing more than 10,000 9-month-old babies.

These parents completed an 11-question survey designed to see which parents were well prepared and which were not.

The survey asked questions like, "Should a 1-year-old child be able to tell between right from wrong?" and "Should a 1-year-old child be ready to begin toilet-training?"

The correct answer to both is no.

Parents who got four or fewer correct answers were considered to have low parenting knowledge.

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The researchers then compared these surveys with a videotaped analysis of the same families teaching their child a new task, such as playing with blocks.

They also looked at information provided by the parents about how often they engaged their children in enrichment activities, such as reading books, singing songs or telling stories.

They found that 31.2 percent of the parents had a low level of knowledge about what to expect from their child, and this was strongly correlated with lower parental education level and income.

"The fact that almost a third of parents could only answer four out of eleven questions correctly was very surprising to us," Paradis said in a telephone interview.

Even when the researchers controlled for factors like the mother's age, education, income and mental state, they still found a significant number of parents with unrealistic expectations about their baby's development.

And that had a negative impact on the parent-child relationship. "Parents who had less knowledge had less quality interaction with their kids," Paradis said.

Paradis said one way to address the problem is to urge pediatricians to educate parents during well-baby visits.

"My hope for pediatricians is that we're able to come up with some novel approaches to educating parents in the office setting," she said.

(Editing by Will Dunham and Xavier Briand)

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Comments

        This research summary supports a core premise in this nonprofit Web site - i.e. that many (over half?) of average (American) parents are psychologically wounded and unaware of vital relationship and parenting knowledge, so they  can't fill their young kids' developmental needs adequately.

        That seems to produce Grown Wounded Children (GWCs) and a wide range of personal, family, and social problems. 

        The summary quotes the chief researcher, Dr. Heather Paradis as suggesting the solution is somehow convincing pediatricians to take responsibility for educating parents on what to expect from and for their young children. this suggests unawareness that is typical of U.S. health-care educators and practitioners.

        This could probably raise parents' knowledge if (a) average pediatricians were willing to take on what should be a parental responsibility, and (b) new parents were open to receiving unsolicited instruction from them. The real problem is that a high number of U.S. parents are not motivated to prepare themselves for healthy conception and effective child care.

        The unremarked problem "beneath" that is (a) the U.S. public tacitly condones irresponsible child conception and ineffective child care, and (b) state and federal lawmakers, churches, and national medical societies do not want to challenge that. The result is that millions of vulnerable young American kids are unintentionally under-nurtured, (developmentally neglected), grow up to have major relationship, health and social problems, and die prematurely.

      If you're nurturing someone's young kids, learn what you need to know by studying this free online course. The alternative is not knowing what you need to know, and passing on serious psychological wounds to your vulnerable descendents.  Also consider these three practical steps any concerned person can take to combat this tragic complacency and denial on family, local, state, and national levels.

      Pause, breathe, and reflect - why did you read this article? Did you get what you needed? If not, what do you need? Who's answering these questions - your true Self, or ''someone else''?

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