__ Alert, awake,
__ Generally "up" and "light,"
(mood)
__ Usually realistically optimistic
__ Focused, clear, and
centered
__ Compassionate, kind,
forgiving
__ Firm, strong,
confidant, purposeful
__ Calm,
serene, peaceful
__
Usually has a wide-angle,
long-range
focus
- accepts delayed gratification
__ Balances long and
short-term payoffs
__ Usually patient, persistent, committed
__ Appreciative,
grateful, "glass half-full"
__
sensitive, genuinely
respectful
__
aware, "connected," receptive, growing
__ Consistently self-nurturing without egotism
__ Genuine, honest, open, direct
__ Respectfully
assertive
__ Socially engaged and
active
__ Physically healthy: balanced diet,
exercise, work and rest; gets preventive checkups
__ Spontaneously
expressive of all emotions real-time, without major anxiety or guilt
__ Able to form
genuine bonds with others
__ Able to judge who to
dis/trust with what
__ Realistically
self-responsible
__ Usually
realistic about
life and situations
__
Spontaneously able
to exchange
__ Comfortable
receiving merited praise
__ Often able to
forgive self and others
__ Frequently
maintains a two-person
__ Seldom gives
__ Able to
grieve losses spontaneously
__ Seeks
Self-guided people and high-nurturance settings
__
Evolving and living
a clear
__ Work, play, and rest
are generally
balanced |
__ Fuzzy,
distracted, confused, numb
__ Often "heavy," "down,"
gloomy, manic
__ Usually
pessimistic or idealistic
__ Confused,
vague, unable to stay focused
__ Blaming,
critical, bigoted
__ Indecisive,
worried,
cautious, doubtful
__ "Upset,"
scared, angry, guilty, ashamed
__ Usually has
a narrow, short-term focus
__ Usually
seeks
__ Often
impatient, impulsive,
uncommitted
__ Bitter,
jealous, resentful, "glass half empty"
__ Selfish,
arrogant, disrespectful
__ Spiritually unaware,
skeptical, closed, scornful, or uninterested
__
Consistently
self-neglectful
__
Dishonest, indirect,
sly, controlling
__
Timid and apologetic, or aggressive
__ Isolated or compulsively social
__ Physically unhealthy; relies on
prescribed drugs or
self-medication
__ Anxious, guilty, or
blocked about feeling and/or
expressing some or all emotions
__ Difficulty forming true (vs. pseudo)
__ Difficulty
discerning who to
with what
__ Notably over- or
under-responsible
__ Frequent
and denials
__ Difficulty giving and/or
receiving real love
__
Uncomfortable receiving merited praise
__ Difficulty forgiving
self and/or others
__ Often
focuses only on her/himself or a conversational partner - 1-person "bubble"
__ Often gives
double messages
__ Difficulty grieving
on one to
__ Unconsciously prefers
and low-nurturance settings
__ Unclear on or
indifferent to a life purpose
__ Work, play, and rest
are often unbalanced |