Selected Intervention Techniques
Interventions designed to reduce each of the psychological wounds are described in
this series of articles. Most of these clinical
techniques for low-nurturance couple or
family clients can be adapted for use with recovering individuals.
Additional parts-work techniques include these:
Clarify
Client Priorities
Before hitting
and progressing on
most typical GWCs (survivors of childhood neglect) habitually
their own
health, needs, and welfare. They may or may not admit this to themselves or
other people, and/or they rationalize it or say "I can't help it."
Goals:
This clinical technique will not correct the client's self neglect
(excessive
but can help them break some denial about it and its
implications - like admitting the reality of their
and related psychological
and the value of personal wound recovery.
Best time to do this - before
the GWC on his/her psychological wounds, or soon afterwards.
Preparations - agree with
the client on definitions of needs, wholistic heath,
and neglect. Option - first review this Bill
of Personal Rights with the client, and ask him or her to identify which of
them s/he currently lives by.
Technique - at an appropriate
point in the work flow, ask the client something like
"Help me understand what your top
4 or 5 life priorities have been in - say - the last x months. There's
no right or wrong answer." Use
to acknowledge the client's answer without judgment or comment.
If s/he includes "my wholistic health" or equivalent, decide whether this
matches your perception of the client's recent behaviors. If so, affirm that and
congratulate the client. If not, factually confront him or her on examples of
behavior that indicate self abandonment and neglect - e.g. "You've taught me
that you often skip breakfast, use cigarettes and anti-depression medication,
and work 60 or more hours each week - is that so?"
If the client doesn't include some version of "my health or welfare" in
describing recent priorities, point that out objectively - "I notice you
don't include your own welfare and health in your priorities. Are you aware of
that?" Options - ask (a) "What do you feel your self-neglect is
teaching your kids about valuing and caring for themselves?", and/or (b) "How
would you describe each of your childhood caregivers' attitudes about self-love
and self-care?" This technique can lead to a range of strategic Lesson-1
interventions about subselves, psychological wounds,
and wound-recovery if the client is receptive.
Inner-family Sculpting
Having clients do something physical in a session
can be more effective
than talking to provide strategic experiential learning. "Sculpting" is one way
of doing this
Goals -
Participants -
Preparations -
Best time
to do this -
Technique
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Next
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+ + +to the techniques index, or
continue
with sculpting techniques to illustrate (a) relationship triangles, and (b)
present and desired external and internal family dynamics.
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